The echo of bullying
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Bullies as we know are those people who kept hatred depth in their heart. People who think vengeance as the solution of every altercation. Bullies that we’ve known for their bad, rude and heartless attitude. That they don’t give care about some peoples feeling. That they don’t give heed if they have hurt somebody’s emotion.
But do we know that bullies are also bullied? Of course we don’t, for we only pay attention to those people who we think they bullied. We don’t even investigate deeper. Not knowing that, every action has a corresponding reason.
Maybe the person has his/ her reason or problem. Family problem that he has something bad experience in his/her past, he/she is physically criticize, or psychologically abused. Just like what spongebob said “How will you know if someone loves you, if you don’t tell them that you love them too.” How will you know what the person have been through if you don’t share the same dilemma? How will you know if you don’t experience how it is to be bullied, right?
Bullies have their own reason. Maybe they are just seeking attention for they have been rejected. We should not be shallow thinker; we should dive deep down and seek information, for us to know what have been broken. Or maybe they were bullied and seek revenge for themselves. We should not just stand on the other side. Just like a seesaw; without your playmate you can’t play with it. Well, all I want to say is, we should be fair! We should hear both sides. For sometimes the one who bullies is more broken, the one who bullies needs more attention. Sometimes the one who bullies is exactly the one who is bullied. Bullies are not bullies if they didn’t experience how it is to be violated. For sometimes bullies are the one who’s standing on the right side and holding the sensible reason.
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But do we know that bullies are also bullied? Of course we don’t, for we only pay attention to those people who we think they bullied. We don’t even investigate deeper. Not knowing that, every action has a corresponding reason.
Maybe the person has his/ her reason or problem. Family problem that he has something bad experience in his/her past, he/she is physically criticize, or psychologically abused. Just like what spongebob said “How will you know if someone loves you, if you don’t tell them that you love them too.” How will you know what the person have been through if you don’t share the same dilemma? How will you know if you don’t experience how it is to be bullied, right?
Bullies have their own reason. Maybe they are just seeking attention for they have been rejected. We should not be shallow thinker; we should dive deep down and seek information, for us to know what have been broken. Or maybe they were bullied and seek revenge for themselves. We should not just stand on the other side. Just like a seesaw; without your playmate you can’t play with it. Well, all I want to say is, we should be fair! We should hear both sides. For sometimes the one who bullies is more broken, the one who bullies needs more attention. Sometimes the one who bullies is exactly the one who is bullied. Bullies are not bullies if they didn’t experience how it is to be violated. For sometimes bullies are the one who’s standing on the right side and holding the sensible reason.
By: Jomari Tabla
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